On Sunday, March 23, Pastor Brett is preaching from Romans 1:26 - 32, which deals with the issue of sexual sins. An email said, "As parents, please be aware that your child may not be ready to have the conversations necessary to properly understand and apply the mature topics in this week's passage. If you feel it would be best for your child not to participate in this week's sermons, you may have them attend children's church for kids through 5th grade."
Without any planning on the staff, part of this Sunday's 1st - 5th-grade lesson is David and Bathsheba. The lesson is entitled David's Kindness and Sin. It will contrast David's treatment of Mephibosheth and his treatment of Bathsheba.
The topic of David's sin will be covered in an age-appropriate way. With both of these lessons planned for tomorrow, I want to make a statement and offer some suggestions.
STATEMENT:
As the pastor overseeing TBC's children and family ministry, avoiding these lessons in a curriculum would be "easy" because they are hard or challenging to talk about in a classroom setting.
At the same time, isn't the church and home the best place to have these conversations, as opposed to a school classroom or, even worse the playground with friends?
It is better to have conversations about topics like sex and gender issues in the light of Scripture.
SUGGESTIONS:
David, a "man after [God's] own heart" who was faithful to his promise to Jonathan (2 Samuel 9), was also the man who committed adultery with Bathsheba and then had her husband killed. The account in 2 Samuel is a serious account of a very serious sin. In Sunday's lesson, we are going to handle it seriously. It will not be a Veggietales-type lesson about stealing rubber duckies.
Here is how the narrative of David and Bathsheba was shared in class.
David
was a godly king. He loved the Lord and worshiped God in the songs he wrote.
Let's read just a few verses of one of those beautiful worship songs David wrote. Psalm 103:1-5 and 108:1-5
What
beautiful words of praise and glory to God!
Though
David did many good and wonderful things, David was not perfect. He was still a
sinner like every person on this earth. David needed God's forgiveness just
like you and I need forgiveness of sin. David made a big mistake one day. A BIG SIN. And,
as is usually the case, one sin leads to another.
One
day, David spotted a beautiful woman named Bathsheba.
The
Bible says that he wanted her, so he sent his servants to get her.
The
problem was that David had a wife, and Bathsheba had a husband.
And
marriage is a very special relationship God created between one man and
one woman.
David
broke that marriage vow and did what he wanted.
Not
what Bathsheba wanted.
Not
what Urriah wanted
AND DEFINITELY NOT WHAT GOD WANTED.
Bathsheba
went back home, and later she was carrying his child.
Now
people would know that something had happened between David and Bathsheba because
her husband, Uriah, was fighting in David's army. He was out on the battlefield
fighting the Philistines.
So
David came up with a plan to cover up his sin.
David
called for Uriah to come from the battlefield to the palace.
"Hello,
Uriah," greeted David. "Tell me, how is the battle progressing?"
Uriah
gave King David a report.
In
Samuel 11:8, David said, “Go down to your house.”
But
Uriah didn’t go to his house.
Uriah
told David, “The ark and Israel and Judah are staying in tents. How could I go to my house to eat, drink, and sleep with my wife?”
Uriah was so loyal to David that instead of going home to his wife, he
slept on the porch of the palace!
David
was frustrated. His plan was not working. He wanted Uriah to spend time with
Bathsheba. Then everyone would think Bathsheba was carrying Uriah's baby.
But
Uriah didn't go home. He never even saw his wife.
David
came up with another plan. (2 Samuel 11:14, 15)
He would have Uriah killed in battle
This displeased God.
1. David sinned by taking another man's
wife.
2. Then, he sinned by murdering her
husband.
3. To top it off, he tried to cover it
all up so no one would know about iti
Well,
God knew. God did not let David's sin go unpunished (See 2 Samuel)
In today's lesson, we looked at David's KINDNESS to Mephibosheth and his SIN AGAINST God, Bathsheba, and Urian.
ADDITIONAL:
Here is an infographic that shows how to talk about this story to children of different ages (not cited because I cannot remember where I found it). The summaries are not perfect, but they do show some age-appropriate differences in telling the story. Click on the graphic for a better view.
THE
UNCENSORED RECAP
Here's
the lowdown:
David
spied the married Bathsheba
one afternoon while she was bathing in the courtyard, and he was instantly
smitten. He sent for her and ultimately fathered her child. Then, because he
wanted to marry Bathsheba, David set up her husband, a faithful
soldier, to be killed on the battlefield. Afterward, the prophet Nathan told David of God's extreme displeasure with his actions, and David
grew very remorseful.
God
forgave him, but the newborn was stricken with disease and died.
HOW
TO TELL PRESCHOOLERS
King
David was very rich and powerful. Once, he used his power to get a woman named
Bathsheba to marry him, but that wasn't what God had planned. David used his
power in a way that didn't make God very happy. When David realized what he
did was wrong, he asked God to forgive him, and God did.
HOW
TO TELL ELEMENTARY
KIDS
King
David saw Bathsheba,
who was very beautiful, fell in love with her right away. He
wanted to marry her, but she already had a husband. David didn't like that, so
he arranged for Bathsheba's husband to be killed so that he could marry
Bathsheba anyway. When this happened, God wasn't at all happy with David. When David realized that what he'd done was wrong, and he felt terrible about it. He
asked God to forgive him, and God did.
HOW
TO TELL PRETEENS
King
David saw Bathsheba
one afternoon in the courtyard and instantly fell in love with her, He wanted
to marry her, but the problem was Bathsheba already had a husband.
So
David used his power to have her husband killed on the battlefield.
Then
Bathsheba was all alone, and David could marry her. But the prophet Nathan told David how unhappy God was that he'd done an evil thing. David
grew very remorseful and begged God for forgiveness. God forgave him, but
David's first child with Bathsheba died.
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